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From The Desk Of: Mickey G. Quinn
“Are You Comfortable?”
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I've given this
little article this title because that was the heading of a notice posted in the
examining room at one of the doctor's offices I have visited recently.
Underneath this heading the sign went on to read, "It's difficult to keep the
temperature adjusted to suit the needs of our patients. If you are
uncomfortable, please inform the desk and we will be happy to adjust it for
you".
Well, in the first place, most of the time when a person goes to the doctor,
it's because they are not comfortable. If they were really comfortable, they
wouldn't drive all that distance and spend their hard earned money to see the
doctor. I mean, they're probably not there for the fellowship.
But with a sign like that hanging on the wall, you would tend to get the
impression that your comfort was of great importance to them. Well, as we sat
there, and sat there, and sat there for a really long time, it became more and
more evident that our comfort was not really that high on their priority list. I
can never really understand why a person goes to the doctor for a ten o'clock
appointment and he is made to wait out front for an hour and then taken to a
room where he waits another half hour. And then the doctor has the nerve to ask
him why his blood pressure is so high.
My wife, Ruth, accompanied me to the doctor's office on several of those visits
and she is very cold natured and the room was often too cold for her, but seeing
that our comfort wasn't really that high on their priority list, she didn't ask
them to adjust the temperature. She just toughed it out. But there was something
in that room each time that was far more uncomfortable than the weather and they
didn't have a sign concerning it. That thing I'm speaking of was in the air. It
was the (so-called) music that they had piped into every room. We had to sit
there and tolerate this stuff until we finally noticed a knob on the wall which
we finally found to be the volume control to that awful stuff. After learning
this, we were able to turn it off and Ruth could sit there and freeze in peace.
Well, when the doctor finally arrived, we found him to be as cold as his rooms.
One of the first things he noticed was that there was no (so-called) music in
there, so I informed him that I had found the mysterious knob on the wall and
had turned it off. This man tried to put up such a good front with this little
sign proclaiming his concern for the comfort of his patients and yet all real
evidence that was present revealed his lack of concern.
Then came time for treatment, and the lack thereof was all that was needed to
see that his number one priority was his car payment and so on. His real reason
for becoming a doctor was motivated by something that had "In God We Trust"
written on it. He finally realized though, that I wasn't content nor satisfied
with his (so-called) treatment, so he referred me to a specialist. But not
before sending me back to work on full duty, which I was neither ready for nor
able to do.
I had been told by many people of a specialist who everyone said was very good
in the field of knee injuries, but as I tried to recommend him to the doctor, I
was told that it wasn't up to me to decide who I would go see, but that it would
be up to my company nurse to choose who treated me. Again, I was uncomfortable.
Well, the company nurse chose me a doctor and made me an appointment to see him,
but he wasn't the one I had been told about, so when I went to see him I was
expecting the same lack of concern. He told me to wear a knee brace for a month
and come back to see him. After I had done that with no improvement, he decided
to do surgery to see what the problem was. A week after my surgery, I was
scheduled to go back to see him and I did that this past Wednesday 2/15/1995.
As I sat in the little waiting room, where by the way, there was no sign
concerning the weather and my comfort, I overheard this doctor talking to
another patient in the next room. He talks very loud, so I had no problem
hearing what he had to say. He was explaining to this other patient about her
problem with a nerve. As he did so, he explained that he could repair damage to
the outside of a person's nerves, but that when a person had internal damage,
the only one who could heal was the Lord.
Suddenly for the first time since November the eleventh of last year when I had
my knee injury, I felt comfortable. I made up my mind right then and there that
no matter what this man told me, I was going to try and do it. When he came into
the room where I was, he examined my knee and explained to me that what I was
calling swelling is actually fluid and pointed out how fluid-like the bulges
around my knee were. Then he told me that he wanted to start me on some more
therapy when I am ready for it. As he was about to leave, I asked him when he
wanted me to return to work and he said, "I don't want you even going back there
until I see you again in a month".
Friends, my knee didn't suddenly feel better when I heard that doctor admitting
to that other patient that he knew his limitations. But I certainly did suddenly
get a feeling of real comfort. It had nothing to do with a sign on the wall. It
had nothing to do with the weather, though it was warmer in that room, even
before he came in there. It did have something to do with something that was in
the air though, and it wasn't (so-called) music. It did have everything to do
with the feeling I got that this man had "In God We Trust" written upon his
heart instead of his wallet.
It is my most earnest prayer as it is with every article the Lord places upon my
heart to write, that it will serve as a very real and lasting blessing to all
those who will read it and that in Him you will find the comfort you cannot find
in the world. May God richly bless you!